There are even brands out there making awesome sex toys with gay men specifically in mind.

He may be more likely to buy an XXL butt plug to help stretch things out down there, or a double-edged dildo in case the guy he brings home happens to be a bottom, too.

For example, a queer man might be more likely to buy a Fleshlight shaped like a male porn star’s butt than of a female porn star’s vulva. That’s why there are certain sex toys that appeal more to gay, bi, and queer men than straight guys. Nevertheless, gay culture-including gay sex culture-is indeed a thing. That's why no type of sex toy or butt plug is inherently “gay.' Sex toys don't discriminate they're made for anyone and everyone who wants them.